Hi e & j hopefully you can help me, so the guy I'm with told me that I have a hard time making or keeping eye contact (before we had sex) and when we did have sex I found myself not making eye contact and I feel as though its important and more intimate when you do, I don't want him to think I'm not into it or something, idk why It's hard for me. What should I do Btw love your blog xo
Aw I don’t know what to tell you I’m so sorry! Do you know why you’re having a hard time making eye contact? Is it because you’re self conscious or feel awkward? My best advice is to just try to stay aware of where your eyes are and make a conscious effort to look back into his and smile. Things like that are hard because you have to break a habit and then form a new one, which requires you to be constantly correcting yourself and being like “oh, yeah i gotta do that.”
But you can do it I believe in you! Good luck!
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