Anonymous whispered,
yes yes, i agree with everything you've said but heres the predicament. he doesn't know if he likes guys because he hasn't been with them, and i told him he has to go and figure that out for himself, and then he said he doesn't want to break up or cheat on me soooo we're kinda stuck.
My point is, though, it shouldn’t matter whether or not he likes guys. If he likes you, he’s not going to cheat on you or leave you, whether for a man or a woman. This is less about his orientation and more about his character. He doesn’t necessarily “have” to go and figure that out away from you - he could explore his sexuality after your relationship ends, if it does, or never if he’s really in love with you and doesn’t need to, or even with you and another guy at some point down the road. It isn’t black and white, this is a grey area. If he doesn’t want to break up, and you don’t want to break up either, then don’t. If all of a sudden his newfound bisexuality becomes a possible “reason to cheat,” he would have been looking for one anyways.
-E