Anonymous whispered,
First off, your blog is amazing. Second, me and this guy have been fucking around for about 4 months, but I'm still a virgin (so I give blowjobs/handjobs...he fingers me/eats me out). The past two times we've tried to do anal, but it just hurts so much and it feels like I'm going to puke, even when he just stretches me with his fingers first. Any advice to make this easier? Because I am completely eager to try it!
Okay - is there a particular reason you’re trying to do anal before regular sex? That seems like it’d be a little disconcerting, in my opinion.
Anyways, are you using lube? You didn’t mention that and it’s extremely important, especially for your first time. You can check out a few posts about anal in our FAQ if that doesn’t answer your question. Good luck :)
edit: also thanks for the compliment, glad you like the blog!
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