Anonymous whispered,
Okay, first off let me say I love your blog. I found it today by accident and I'm glad I did. I'm enjoying reading and looking at your posts. How old are both of you and how long have you been together? Okay, I'm also happy I found it because you give advice and I could use some from somebody who isn't close to me or anyone I'm involved with. I'm 24, almost 25, and currently have 2 men in my life. My now ex (he is 33) that I'm living with hasn't touched me sexually in almost a year, I've tried e
Did you forget to continue? lol
edit, continued:
“Sorry I didn’t realize it cut me off! I’ve been a horrible girlfriend. Which is not the case, I changed my entire world for him. I lived to make sure he was happy. Why is he acting like this now? I don’t want to get back together with him, I want to move on and be happy with my new guy, I just want to know why he’s being like this.”
I still feel like something’s missing here, but I think I get the general idea. People do sometimes go through phases where they simply are not interested in sex, but a year is an extremely long time. There are a few possibilities: He is simply not interested in you at all anymore, he is seeing someone else and hasn’t told you, he’s going through a period of depression or something similar and thus is not interested in sex, period, or (who knows) he could even be questioning his orientation.
I think the bit I’m missing here is why it matters if you’re seeing someone new though! Let us know.
-E
3 months ago
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