Anonymous whispered,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2+ years, long distance, and we are finally getting to be very open about how rough we really like it, which is apparently very rough ;) (we're actually really into I guess you'd say BDSM, but we're still trying to "experiment"), but as you can probably guess, experimenting is sometimes hard over Skype and whatnot. Usually, I'm submissive and he's dominant. Any suggestions?
Tell him you want him to control what you do. He can “order” you to use a toy in different ways, gag yourself, spank yourself, wear particular outfits…basically treat it as though you were being dominated in person. We have a bit of experience with this, as we started out as a long-distance relationship. This is a bit vague, I know, but I’m hurrying to type this before class starts, haha. Let us know if you need more help!
-E